Feb 01-12

My dad always told me growing up,

Five years from now, you're the same person except for the people you've met and the books you've read.

He got that quote from John Wooden, and to be honest, I never thought it was true.

Really? The books I read will change me that much?

Really, they will.

Last year, I took the challenge of reading 12 books in 12 months. I ended up reading more than that, and I am a completely different person because of it. If I do this 12 in 12 for the next 5 years, I am incredibly excited to see how my life will change! Dave Ramsey always says, "He with the most information and the most patience wins." Usually he is referring to getting the best deal on an item you want to purchase, but I think it applies to reading books as well.

He with the most information and most patience really does win.

This February, I want to focus my free time on reading. It's a small goal, but a step in the right direction to set the tone for this year. Will and I both have some substantial goals regarding books in 2012, so my hope is to read a little every morning, a little every night, and to fill my free time with reading a few pages as well. If I take Winston to the vet? I bring a book. If I take a road trip? Bring a book. If I run errands? Maybe even listen to an audio book. Hopefully lots of little time reading will result in much accomplishment!

I'd like to share one of my favorite Pinterest Boards I've created : Books Worth Reading. These are books that I have read and highly recommend.  In one way or another, they changed me, my habits, or one important area of my life. I don't post every single book that I read onto this Board - only the ones that have had an impact on my life. Or maybe I really enjoyed a good novel, and I feel you would enjoy it too.

Since I never officially gave a recap of my 2011 Books, here is a summary of the books I read : 15 Total

The Mesh
The Forbidden
The Parting
The Longing
The E-Myth
Be the Pack Leader
Heavenly Man
Love and Respect
Saving CeCe Honeycutt
Stuff Christians Like
Thou Shall Prosper
Good to Great
Boundaries
The 4 Hour Workweek
The Bible

Out of that list, I would say my top 5 include : The E-Myth, Boundaries, Thou Shall Prosper, Heavenly Man, and The 4 Hour Workweek. (Obviously the Bible is #1!) I hope that my 2011 reading list, as well as my Books Worth Reading Pinterest Board, will inspire and motivate you to become a reader. Or perhaps, just become more of a reader than you already are.

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February Goals

Spend more of my free time reading
12 in 12 : Read Kisses from Katie
Meet with my health coach to layout a plan for my 1/2 marathon training
Continue to wake up at 6:30am each workday + add Sundays to that routine
Clean out the Garage
Design + Order the last wedding albums from 2011

 

What are some of your favorite books?

Comments: 11

  1. Will February 1, 2012 11:53 am

    Awesome post! so thrilled about what we’re going to read this year.

  2. Victoria Todd February 1, 2012 12:01 pm

    I just finished kisses from katie and blogged about it. i really enjoyed reading it, and walking away with encouragement that the Lord does powerful things when we seek Him!

  3. Liz February 1, 2012 12:32 pm

    I just finished “The Seed” bu Jon Gordon – he has a good weekly blog too. I’ve heard good things about the 4-hour work week and came across the praying wife over the weekend. Off to the library this weekend! :)

  4. Sylvia Basham February 1, 2012 1:51 pm

    I saw you read Jon Acuff…..his newest book Quitter is one you’ll love as you’re setting goals!

  5. Linnea February 1, 2012 3:02 pm

    Hi Nancy! I love reading your monthly goals posts – they always inspire me to look ahead and set some solid goals for the upcoming weeks. Have you ever used goodreads.com to keep track of your books? They have a great system where you can create and name your own “shelves” based on what you want to read and what your favorites are. I also read the 4 Hour Workweek and the Mesh last year. One of my to-read books for this year is the E-Myth! Today I registered for a marathon in June – training starts on the 12th of February! My goal for the month is to stick to my training plan and run 5 days a week (I’m using a Hal Higdon plan). It’s awesome that you are going to be running a half this year! February, let’s DO THIS!

  6. Kel February 1, 2012 3:15 pm

    I hate to add another to your already awesome list, but Safely Home is another good one. I served as a missionary in China for a while and that book really shows you the truth about underground church through an amazing story. A friend of mine wrote the forward or part of it for The Heavenly Man. She was then kicked out of China for doing so……fascinating stuff I tell you. Anyway, just thought I would mention. :)

  7. samantha February 1, 2012 4:14 pm

    nancy, i really enjoyed “drive” by daniel pink. happy february!

  8. Justin Vidovich February 2, 2012 12:18 pm

    …and play catan with justin and molly

  9. Rachel February 3, 2012 10:03 am

    A few from my reading list for 2012 include: The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson, Miracles and The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis, Kisses from Katie (like you’ve mentioned above) and One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp…I think I’ll also read at some point, Beautiful Outlaw by John Eldredge… Thanks for sharing your list as there’s a few I see that I’ve never read before and might look into! Happy Friday!

  10. Bridgett February 3, 2012 2:36 pm

    Hi Nancy! I found you via Lara Casey and love your work! I especially love how you write your monthly and yearly goals. I think I may “steal” this idea to keep myself accountable. Such a great idea! I have 4-Hour Work Week on my phone but would love to actually read it! Love engulfing myself in your work!

    xo
    Bridgett

  11. Lindsay Ann February 8, 2012 3:32 pm

    Hey Nancy! If you haven’t read it yet, Radical by David Platt will definitely change your life, especially if you try his challenge at the end of the book. It is especially awesome if you get a group of people to read it together and try to live out the challenge together. It may seem a little…well… radical, at first, but he really lays his heart out and makes valid points. After the first chapter, I wanted to say, “he’s going a little over the top” but I pushed through and I am so glad I did.

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Jan 30-12

Today is Monday, January 30th, 2012. I am spending my day with one of my dearest friends, photographers, and mentors - Caroline Joy - teaching a group of wonderful ladies all about how we run our photography businesses at our annual Branches and Light workshop.

I LOVE this time of year!

Be sure to follow our @Branches_Light twitter account, as we'll be tweeting photos, lessons, questions and quotes throughout the day.

And now, a few photos of our excitement while we were setting up for the workshop. Courtesy of my iPhone :]

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Jan 26-12

Oh how I love this couple! Brittaney exudes joy. Every part of her is joyful, content, happy, in love. What a beautiful person to photograph! And Jeff - strong, quiet, tall, and definitely not afraid to laugh (ie : make Brittaney laugh.) They are the perfect match. I cannot wait for their sweet wedding in just a few months.

We began their sweet session in the heart of Downtown Raleigh, followed by a fun adventure to historic Pullen Park that recently re-opened.

 

Comments: 5

  1. Samantha January 26, 2012 12:26 pm

    Nancy, these are so pretty! I love the black and white shots!

  2. Kel January 26, 2012 3:53 pm

    That first black and white is awesome!!! great job!!

  3. Brittaney January 26, 2012 6:37 pm

    I love them All!! Thank you :)

  4. Jeff January 27, 2012 6:27 pm

    Awesone! I may be biased, but that is the most beautiful bride-to-be I have ever seen.

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    [...] We’re so grateful that Nancy Ray introduced us to this sweet couple. Not only did we make new friends in Jeff & Brittaney, but we felt really honored to spend their wedding day alongside their kind, appreciative families. And, a big plus: we got to shoot this wedding with our good friends Nancy & Will Ray, who made the bride and groom feel completely at ease, and kept Philip and I smiling too! Check out Nancy’s photos from the wedding day HERE. For more of this beautiful couple, check out Brittaney’s bridal portraits and the couple’s engagement photos . [...]

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Jan 25-12

These sweet photos make my heart just melt. My newest niece, Haven Joy, was born December 15, 2011. When visiting Nashville over New Years, I had some time to take a few newborn photos of sweet Haven. The soft, wrinkly skin, those big eyes looking back at me - be still my heart! I can't wait to watch her little personality grow and grow.

And of course, we attempted the Blanton family photo with 5 kids: Ages 3 and under. It was hilarious, as usual. Oh how I love this family.

 

Comments: 5

  1. Erin Snyder January 25, 2012 9:54 am

    such a beautiful family!

  2. Liz January 25, 2012 10:05 am

    With triplets, I think thats the best family photo you’re going to get for now! :) Lovely family Nancy!

  3. Brittany R January 25, 2012 10:12 am

    I love love LOVE that last one. Everything looks so calm, when I’m sure right behind the camera lies cozy cars, basketballs and yard toys galore! I love this sweet family. You capture them beautifully!!

  4. Samantha January 26, 2012 12:27 pm

    so sweet! being an aunt is the best!

  5. Gretchen January 31, 2012 8:03 pm

    These are so precious! I got to see them recently and love all of those kiddos:)

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Jan 20-12

A sweet preview from my first engagement session of the year. Beautiful light + sweetest couple in the world. If this is any indication of how 2012 is shaping up to be, I'm one happy photographer! 

Comments: 3

  1. Brittaney January 20, 2012 10:54 am

    Yay!!! This made my Friday :) Thank you for such a fun day :) We are so excited for all your beautiful photos :)

  2. Katie Beach January 20, 2012 12:42 pm

    Such beautiful pictures!! I can’t wait for March! You both look so happy!:)

  3. Janie Flinn February 2, 2012 3:34 pm

    What great pictures of such a wonderful couple!

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